The verbal and physical abuse of Gomer and her children
Gomer, the wife of the prophet Hosea has no voice in the book of Hosea. What would she say if she told her own story? She can be found in Hosea1:2-9; 2; 3; 4:1, 5-6, 10.
Gomer tells her story.
I was a prostitute before we were married. That's how we met. I had no male family to protect me. I had to survive any way I could. I thought his abuse would end with the birth of our first child but it didn't. As hard as I tried to leave my past behind the abuse continued.
I was so worried about the children. It was devastating for them to witness the abuse. When he stripped me and refused to give me food and water I could see the anguish in their little faces. He told our daughter that he didn't love her and our baby boy that he is not his father. I finally had enough. I collected the children and ran. That got his attention.
He found us and bought us from the people who had taken us in. He spoke sweetly to me. That was a pattern with him. He would abuse me and then feel sorry until it happened again. He told our daughter he loved her and our little boy that he was his father. I had hope that things would be better.
Observations:Hosea's language of abuse can be problematic for abused women and children. We do not know why Gomer was labeled a whore by her husband. In a culture where men are privileged and women are valued for their reproductive abilities, women must be carefully controlled. The young women who was beaten with an ax by her brother may have been labeled a whore. We are naturally horrified by the abuse of this young woman. Unfortunately, spousal and child abuse abounds. Men are not god and women are not nations deserving of punishment.
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